Our Shared Experience
Here you will find articles written by our ministers over the past 20+ years on all aspects of living a spiritual life.
Is God Broccoli?
As a young adult I often stayed at the beautiful Marin Headlands hostel just north of San Francisco. I was there one weekend while a...
Read MoreHarness the Power of Love-Sponsored Desire
Desire is a confusing idea. We’re taught that desire is what leads us astray, that it makes us materialistic and unsatisfied with our lot. To...
Read MoreWhat if You Were Always Surrounded by Friends?
Unbeknownst to most Americans, the world is full of animists. According to Professor Stephen Asma of Columbia College Chicago, “Pretty much everywhere except Western Europe,...
Read MoreCommunity is Medicine
It was my birthday party in May and before we all started eating, Briana asked if I wanted to say something to my guests. Unbeknownst...
Read MoreWhat I Learned About Forgiveness for $400
When I was a teenager, I invested $400 in 20 years of anger and a big, hard, life-changing lesson. I had seen this guy around...
Read MoreMaking Peace with Death
Do you remember the first time you drove 100 miles per hour? I was 18 years old. Somewhere between Boston and New York, at about...
Read MoreBondage and Discipline
Getting good at nearly anything requires a certain amount of discipline. At the very least, you need the discipline to practice it on a regular...
Read MoreHow to Be Resilient
Almost every year I witness the same tragedy in Boulder. The daffodils emerge, the trees put forth tender leaves and delicate flowers, and my heart...
Read MoreYou, Life, and the Big Stupid Head
Over the years of teaching and offering spiritual guidance, I’ve been increasingly drawn to the word “expansion” as one of my primary goals for clients...
Read MoreIt’s Okay to Mind What Happens
In my previous article (see "Can We Be Misguided By Spiritual Truths?") I shared a quote from spiritual teacher Jiddu Krishnamurti: “Do you want to...
Read MoreCan We Be Misguided By Spiritual Truths?
There’s a well-known spiritual quote from philosopher and teacher Jiddhu Krishnamurti. The story goes that he was speaking to a group of students (who saw...
Read MoreA Free Pile of Presents Just for You
During a particularly hard break-up in my 20s, a friend advised me, “The more present you are during this process, the bigger the present you’ll...
Read MoreInvite Spirit to Join You
One of the most basic ways to grow the spiritual dimension of your life is to consciously invite Spirit into whatever you’re doing. It’s like...
Read MoreFive Powers of the Divine
After writing about nondual spirituality a couple weeks ago, I received several requests from readers for more information on nondual Tantra. Tantra is a complicated...
Read MoreFrom Suffering to Grace
Early in my medical practice, people told me I should choose one area of medicine to specialize in, but I was resistant to it because...
Read MoreThe Many Ways to Connect to Spirit
Before we get swept up in all the material aspects of the holidays, I thought I’d write a bit about the opportunities for inner growth...
Read MoreFixing Our Relationship With Ourselves and the World
If you were birthed by Earth, then every pebble and plant is your sibling.In a previous article I wrote about animism ("What if You Were...
Read MoreAre We Likely to Be Invaded by a Hostile Alien…
This is a time of year when the dream of world peace comes up more than usual. Maybe, despite the ever growing array of plastic...
Read MoreA Lesson in Benevolence from the Trees
Spring is the season ruled by the Wood Element in Daoist philosophy, so it’s a good time to talk about the lessons and challenges this...
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